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This is about living in the unknown.  For as long as I’ve been coaching people I have had to field their questions about what will happen next.  We can make up stories about what we think will happen.  What we want to happen.  What we hope will happen.  But we cannot possibly know. Which leads us to: […]

When I write these, I realize that I am speaking about things that I have learned from others — my experiences wouldn’t mean much if I only had them by myself!  This is why my next Step is so important: Step 9:  Find a group and learn from them One of the reasons I started […]

Feeling alone is a common human condition.  Add feeling misunderstood and the problem multiplies. I became a helpaholic to gain a sense of belonging, however misguided that notion was!  The more I did for people, the more I felt I was a part of things.  What it set up was a pattern of me giving […]

After struggling through Step 10 and facing that I have had a major difficulty in learning how to receive with grace, it makes perfect sense that the next step is: Step 11:  Learn to do things differently so you only do what you love Learning to be open and receptive is first on my list!  So, […]

I started writing these to help myself break patterns that were in the way of my being able to live my life fully, the way I want.  I’m not fantasizing that I can sail through the next 20 or so years without challenges or difficulties.  I actually welcome those, as they keep me growing. I […]

About Tea The art of tea is an ancient ritual and practice.  The cause of wars, espionage, riches and disease, all true tea comes from the Camellia Sinensis plant.  The differences are the result of geography, growing conditions and methods of processing.  Tea was accidentally discovered around 2737 B.C. by Chinese Emperor Shen-Nun who was […]

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